This is a short list, but it will take a few days to get through the entire thing, assuming nothing goes wrong (something will go wrong)
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Install k9s for a clean ui for kubernetes (via brew is fine)
Docker
https://docs.docker.com/desktop/mac/install/
Docker projects should be placed in a folder that's different from the 'sites folder' created below.
Non-docker projects
https://getgrav.org/blog/macos-monterey-apache-multiple-php-versions
for each version of php, you'll have a php.ini file. set the
memory_limit = 256M or 512M
You may also need to raise the file size upload.
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Make sure to add the 'sites' and 'docker' folder to your finder sidebar
Put the Application Inventory in your bookmarks toolbar
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